24 and 42

There's a difference on many levels, different ways between 24 and 42.

At 24, if you met a fella that's been married for 15 years (even), and has only been divorced for 2 years...ya, I'd advise that you watch out.  Give him MORE time.  Especially if there are children involved.

However, if you are 42, and you meet the same fella.... different game.  You aren't likely to stay home watching "his kids" while he goes out with the guys.  You aren't likely to be at his beck and call.

So enjoy.  Live.  Why not?  you basically have, nothing, to lose.