Thursday, August 19, 2010

Men and Women

A little over a week ago, as I got on Facebook for something, a guy that I had gone on a "friendly" date with - who also gave me something so he would have to see me again, and then AT that time, made a pass at me.... he had changed his Facebook Status from Single to "IN a Relationship."

I wasn't so much hurt or mad, mostly appaulled. HUH? WTF? It is true that I had thought of the possibility of he and I; we have a lot in common, though truthfully, when I think of my future - it isn't one of getting by. Or trading this for that (some bartering is fine). I do require more and I want more. I've done that, and I'm done.

Still... how do you NOT know you are about to be in a "relationship"?

So I asked my friend, who has been with me throughout this cruise of dating, if Pinedale had had any of these experiences. Her response was - "LOL...he has had to get RESTRAINING orders!"

Not that I wish Restraining orders on anyone - either side - though it was refreshing to have that perspective!

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