I was visiting with an old friend yesterday, telling her exactly how I got on this dating journey.... a male friend suggested that I might be happier if I pursued a male friend ...a male relationship. Less lonely.
So I told my old friend - the 3 men I had dated (up to this summer basically) were: first guy was a socialpath, second guy had had a brain injury at an early age and in many ways was stuck at 23, the third guy - he is an alcoholic that really doesn't want a true relationship, he just wants to be with an old woman until she gets tired of his bullshit and he finds someone else. Basically (and I just realized this yesterday, after 3 years) he is a player.
Yep with those men in your history, WHY WHY would you venture out into the dating scene?
Certainly there are better people, better men out there - its just a matter of turning over enough rocks to find the frogs and hopefully they will turn into a Prince!
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