Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Lessons of Others

The Texan seemed to have bit the dust between me going to Texas and being gone for 2 weeks. Prior to that, when it seemed that he bit the dust before we ever even met, my friend said, "he can't, he doesn't have a nickname!"

Now while I don't have a blackbook that contains nicknames and real names, nicknames do help as I read through my posts, helps me to remember the guy. Perhaps that is why men have "blackbooks" of women. So they can remember who we are?? (now that is funny!)

OH... Shit. Cajun just sent an email. I just got notification. That can be read another time.

I honestly am in shock of how many men I've met that have been married....more than once. I don't know how to get past that. "So what happened to wife 1? and wife 2?"

What...there was wife 3?
Oh my.
Yes, multiple marriages seem to be a theme with older men.
The positive view is that they weren't married to all of them at the same time.
Group sex....not for me.
Sharing a man with his children will be difficult enough, much less another wife?
NOPE.

It isn't that I can't get past the multiple marriages - well, I need to get past it.
I need to dig deeper.
I need to ask more questions, though by not....and letting things "be as they are," I do get answers.

Oh my gosh, as I write this, I think one of my very favorite men, had been married a few times before he "got lucky." Wow...an eye opener!!

Hm....This blog started out "Multiple Marriages."

The one truth I feel is that LOVE: To love and to be loved, is simply one of those things we all want.

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