No Hurry!

Ed bit the dust; I'm sorry to say. I realized as I was getting my hair done on Wednesday, that he has never been ANYWHERE. That's one thing when you're 18, but at 49....and never have left within a 100 mile radius of where you grew up, lived? that's not the guy for me. I did like him, though. Its just hard enough trying to be friends with the people you are friends with, without trying to find love. Or a relationship.

I haven't thrown in the towel with Pinedale, though I think I will walk away for a week or so. Its hard to know if his invite a few weeks ago really was kind of what I thought it could be - a booty call, or if he's in. I asked him out last Sunday night, and he came back with he had plans this weekend. I'm not sure he did (he was online when he should have been out), but it really is none of my business. He was kind of whiny, really, the last time I "IM" with him....someone finally wants to go out with him. Oh please! I'm sure there are lots of people that do* He told me that I wouldn't vroom over there to see him - so I emailed him, and told him quite directly that he had the wrong girl. If I can drive clear from Laramie to Birney MT in a VW Bug during a snow storm...he has the wrong girl.

* There are lots of people that want to go out with all of us, and we them. But do we? something just isn't right. For whatever reason.

Another fellow, Wilson, that I've been IM with.... how many times do I have to answer the question ".... are u true? are u for real?" I hate that. I've answered it more than once, he apparently doesn't remember who he is talking to. I get the question, I know the question - but learn to ask it in different ways. Dig a little deeper. Need I say, I removed him from my IM and when I hear from him again (which I'm certain I will), I will tell him to beat it. Either dig deeper or beat it.

Hispanic Boy IM me today; he did the other night, after I hadn't heard from him in 3 weeks. I did tell Hispanic Boy to please leave me alone. I am uninterested. And of course got the response - "okay, your losse"


This is a lesson to me...JUST because men don't contact you does not mean they don't think about you, or they don't remember you. So...No Hurry!

And Mike, who did the phone interview, is not interested and THANK GOODNESS. I was uninterested in him. No, I'm not going to post "Gays are Us" signs in my Yard, though I do believe in Gay Marriages, so its best we don't connect.

So now I enjoy a cuppa hot chocolat, after my cuppa tea and think of taking Stella for a walk. Yes, I do believe we will go.