Sunday, June 13, 2010

Wilson Bit The Dust...HARD

So in the past 4 days, I had IM (buzz) a guy named Wilson. Last night, though, I knew that I really wanted nothing more to do with him. Mainly because we hadn't gotten past "are u for real?" His question to me, over and over again. His other questions, "can I give you my heart, babe?" just made me want to THROW up. What the hell is he talking about? Get REAL.

I deleted him from my contacts last night; alas I got 3 other "dings" from him. Finally this afternoon, I responded. I just said, "I don't think we are meant to be." Of course, I got "why do you think that?"

I know I should have ended last night; not respond at all. I suppose after teling Mexican boy to beat it, that little bit of self doubt crept in. So we discussed it. And now, I have no doubt. END THIS

So, I asked him if he had any siblings, since his parents had died? >> No.
Did he have any relatives that he was close to? >> No
Were his parents only children? >> Apparently yes.
I stopped that line of questioning and went to, do you have any friends that you are close to? >> No.
A secretary, a co-worker that you share a joke with, or coffee with? >> Yes, but they aren't friends. Friends are bad.

HUH? Friends are bad? How does one live without friends?

I told him I would have died by now without friends, and that in the end...after the physical, etc. goes, all we have is friendship - I hope.

So then he asked me if I was ready to make "our dream real."
I asked what "our 'dream'" was. He said, "love."

That all he wanted was LOVE and LOVE. (What is Love?)

That of course, helped solidify that I hated this guy. For 1) there is NO "our" or "us" because he doesn't know me. 2) My dream is not "love." Wilson talked as though Love was this thing to be captured like a butterfly.

So I told him that I didn't think we had the same dream. He told me that we did, its just that I was being PUSHY!

Ha, I've never been called PUSHY!

He told me that I needed to be cool headed; to which I responded, "obviously there isn't a we, since he doesn't know if I can be cool headed or not."

Eventually I got it across that I didn't want the same things, or him and I wanted him to leave me alone.
He responded, "can't we be friends?" (huh, you don't believe in friendships)...
He added, "with an agreement?"

I said "No."

And he responded with, "bye....Go and Die"


Since this turn of events, I've talked to 2 people. A friend who met her husband online and another friend. They both suggested that this guy could easily be in prison. Yippee for me. OMG!

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