The Playa

My girlfriend has moved up from being all about the butt. 

This next fella is attractive, has personality, and probably a butt, too.... and I think she really likes him, however, for all practical purposes, he seems to be,


(drum roll)....

A Playa.

He'd actually be perfect for what she is wanting right now.  
And that is someone who doesn't want commitment, doesn't even want 24/7 in any way, who wants to go have fun.

However she cannot share.
I'm not saying she ought to.
She has admitted to me, and to other friends, she just isn't "that girl."
She is too insecure.
And that is okay.
Though it is too bad.

While I think that he is "playing" now, I don't necessarily think he will always be.

Some men play, always.
Some men play, when you aren't the right one.
Some men play, because they can.
Some men play, until something changes and they change.
Some men play, because they've been married and now are divorced and WOW, all these women want him. Who to choose from? 

A playa, isn't necessarily a jackass.
He isn't necessarily someone you don't want your children to meet, or that you wouldn't take home for Thanksgiving Dinner.

You just have to realize that you may not be around when he decides to play a different game, and settle down.   And be okay with that. 

You can play his game, or not.